We Never Seem To Have Sex Anymore
Jul 11th, 2014 by Aldouspi

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By Nancy Travers

There's a great scene in a Woody Allen movie where a couple is seeing a counselor. Simultaneously the male complains that the couple never has sex while the female complains they have constant sex. The reason the scene is funny is because it contains a bit of truth to it. Few couples are perfectly in sync when it comes to libido.

That imbalance of sexual drive may exacerbate the problem and cause even greater periods of sexual inactivity. How?

Masturbation and Pornography

To compensate for a partner with a lower sex drive, the partner with a higher sex drive may turn to masturbation and/or pornography. Sometimes masturbation is just plain easier than cajoling your partner to take part in something he or she isn't that keen about to begin with. Sometimes masturbation provides welcome relief for pent up sexual needs. But if you overdo it, there may be little left for your partner when sex does become possible. When you add pornography to masturbation, you may be seeing some unrealistic sex and come to expect something more exotic than your partner wishes to partake in. It's also possible that pornography can become a habit that gets in the way of a good relationship with your partner.

Sexual Dysfunction

Usually, sexual dysfunction refers to a lack of erection and difficulty maintaining an erection for men or a lack of orgasm for women. These problems are so common that some people hate to label them as dysfunctional. They are simply a part of your sexual life that should be attended to, and can often be helped with medication or lubrication products. If they are not easily remedied, then it's important to see a professional. Because problems with erections and orgasms will surely impact your sexual relationship negatively, and can lead to less and less desire for sex. Counseling can help.


If partners lose regard for themselves enough to fail to take care of themselves, it can hamper a good sexual relationship. The most common problem is putting on weight to the point that the other partner finds them less desirable. Or maybe a partner is not motivated to take care of their personal hygiene as well as they once did. They let themselves go and no longer find it necessary to go that extra mile to attract their partner. Whatever the issue, it is very tricky to correct and must be done with the utmost tact and loving kindness. No one likes to address such problems, but it's essential because it is inhibiting what could be a perfectly good sexual relationship.

Nancy Travers is an Orange County Counseling professional. If you need safe, effective counseling services, please get in touch. You can reach her here: http://www.nancyscounselingcorner.com/contact-us.

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A Little More About When There is Not Enough Sex

Make sure you two openly communicate about your intimacy needs, then start slow. If you know he pleases himself, then be there with him (if he allows) and snuggle next to him or help him please himself and do it for you, too - masturbating together is very intimate.

Take a shower together and lather soap on each other.

Pillow talk is great for opening the communication - talk and snuggle at night. Do things that don't make either of you feel sex is an obligation or expectation.

On a couples retreat, one of the first things they assign couples to do is please each other without having sex - this is so important for times ahead when we get older or injured or ill. My husband gives me a massage on my legs and it is the best - each of us have intimate things we enjoy as much as sex and if they lead to sex, then all the merrier.

Couples forget the grey area of intimacy - some think there is either sex or no sex, but there is a wide range of activities in between. Also, verbally give your husband plenty of compliments for helping you out and tell him it makes you feel closer to him - be genuine.

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All about Female Libido
Jun 14th, 2014 by Aldouspi

You might not be aware of this fact, but various life stressors, work pressure, daily life hustle and bustle, depression, aging, menstruation and lot more can lead to some serious problems and among those one is the loss of female libido. A large number of women around the world are affected by this problem and sometimes they do nothing to solve it, which can lead to worse consequences.

Loss of female libido is simply the loss of sexual appetite or sexual desire, which of course affects the entire sex life of the two partners. All those factors mentioned above can simply make the sex as unwanted or simply boring activity for a woman. Besides these reasons, many other reasons can also be responsible for this loss of libido. They can be;

• Alcoholism • Hormone abnormalities • Obesity • Anorexia • Pregnancy • Age • Strenuous Exercise • Weight Fluctuation • Excessive Dieting • Anemia • Past sexual abuse • Drug Abuse • Medications • Menstruation • Surgery • Lack of Sleep • Anxiety • Fatigue • Mental Illness • Medical Conditions • Menopause

As soon as you find yourself losing interest in sex, you should immediately see your doctor, who, on the basis of various tests, would then be able to tell you the reason and further treatment. If you do not like seeing a doctor, you can go for alternate simple and easy treatment and that is going for foods (aphrodisiac, estrogenic, vitamin E) that enhance female libido to a great extent. Last but not the least, natural herbs are simply great in this respect, as they have minimum or even no side effects at all and can solve the problem in no time as well.

So, we are sure you do not want your partner to be upset by not fulfilling his sex desire. You just have to choose your preferred mode of treatment and soon you will see the results, as they would not only enhance the libido, but will also enhance your over all wellbeing, making you feel fresh and full of strength and ready to feel the pleasure of sex.


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Sex Should Be More Than Just A Chore
Jul 22nd, 2010 by Aldouspi

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Make Sure Sex is MORE than a CHORE

It is a commonality for intimacy and passion to dwindle over time within any relationship, no matter how much chemistry or spark there was in the beginning. While it is normal for sex to start to become routine and even boring over time, it is important to take action when sex begins to feel like nothing more than a chore. While some women feel that a decrease in libido is something that they just have to come to terms with, a lack of sexual activity can have a drastic effect on any relationship or marriage.

It is important for all women, and men, to understand that intimacy and a healthy relationship rely on a lot more than just sex. If your heart and your mind are not into the process then it can affect your entire relationship and reduce the connection that you and your partner have with one another. Her Solution is about more than giving you the power and desire to initiate sex, it is about allowing you to reconnect with your lover and enjoy life's little intimate moments. Everything from holding hands, cuddling, kissing, hugging, and whispering into one another's ear is an important part of intimacy, and sometimes we need a little help in order for us to remember that.

Strong relationships rely on mutual interest, so while you think that sex with your husband may be routine, boring, and dissatisfying, there is a chance that your partner feels the same way. However, he seems to still desire to have sex with you doesn’t he? That is because men have a far easier time getting themselves aroused and working towards a satisfying finish. Unfortunately, if you are finding sex to be less satisfying on the whole then there is a very good chance that he has picked up on that as well. While he may notice the change, he probably does not know how to deal the issue and simply tries to ignore it and move on.

Wouldn’t you prefer sex to be more enjoyable for yourself and to allow your husband to give you the pleasure that he so desperately wants to? It may take work but the improved connection that comes with a more intimate relationship is more than worth the effort. Especially consider that a female enhancement product such as HerSolution makes your job a lot easier.

The natural ingredients within HerSolution allow you to throw your inhibitions to the wind and suggest all kinds of new ideas and suggestions when it comes to anything that happens in the bedroom, or even outside of it. By breaking your sexual routine and considering new ideas and fantasies, you will be amazed by how much your relationship improves overall and how easy it becomes to give sex the attention it deserves.

Sex is crucial for a successful and exciting marriage, but with your new found focus on your increased sexual desire it is important to remember that intimacy is much more than that. Despite all the benefits that HerSolution brings to your life, it is important to spend time on commitment, friendship, trust, and love as well. When you have a strong relationship overall, you will instantly note that everything else seems to come together as well.

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